Divorce Proof Your Marriage with Gratitude Rituals

One relationship killer is the lack of rituals. Rituals of connection are an important tool for successful relationships and a way of regularly connecting with your partner that creates safety and security within your union.  In “The Power of Habit” author Charles Duhigg explains that habits are crucial to success in all realms of our…

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Grief and Relationships

Grief is tough especially while doing it alone, but imagine sharing a space with your partner who is grieving.  As your divorce proof relationship coach, my mission is always to try to get ahead of the problem. The reality is that a lot of relationships  fall apart after one or both spouses suffer a significant…

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Overcoming Infedelity

Oftentimes people believe that cheating comes out of nowhere. As a counselor and a relationship coach and someone who has personally dealt with infidelity. I want to let you know this isn’t the case. I was talking to Christina’s Dad and really did a breakdown of what takes place in the mindset of the cheater. …

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If I had 72 Hours in Puerto Rico Here’s What I Would Do

Hey Sista, why do you promote traveling so much? Remember I am all about preventative care and divorce proofing your marriage. One tip that helps keep couples together is traveling.   Did you know traveling together invites tremendous benefits to a healthy relationship according to recent studies. Couples that go on and explore the world together…

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Help I am in a Sexless Marriage

I watched an episode of Real HouseWives of Potomac. One of the ladies on the show, Ashley, was blessed with her first child after trying for a while. The fear of potentially losing her baby slowed down the sexual intimacy in her marriage. Unfortunately that carried over after the baby was born. Ashley started to…

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